Please know that Linda Urban's mom is near death under hospice care. I saw Linda yesterday after she was bit by a dog (no joke). 5 teeth. Predictably, her emotions are at the surface.
Everyone deals with stress and end of life issues in their own and often peculiar ways. Some run. Some hide. Some sob. Some are stoic. To some it strengthens their faith. To others it brings doubt. Please just let them be. It will be your turn some day.
Please take your foot off the judgment pedal and give this family the respect and dignity you would like given similar end of life circumstances. Please pray and bless them.
Just as you would want. God bless